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By Christopher Adkins

Do Termination of Parental Rights End Grandparents’ Court-Ordered Visitation? In North Carolina, the answer is no—if grandparents already have court-ordered visitation, those rights survive even after a parent’s rights are terminated.


The Case: Adams v. Langdon (2019)

  • Father obtained custody of the child after mother struggled with mental illness and substance abuse.
  • The maternal grandmother intervened and was awarded court-ordered visitation.
  • Five years later, father sought to terminate mother’s parental rights. The trial court agreed and also declared grandmother’s visitation rights ended.
  • Grandmother appealed.

The Court of Appeals reversed, holding that grandmother’s rights remained intact.


The Court’s Reasoning

  1. Grandparents as parties. Once grandparents intervene and receive court-ordered visitation, they are considered parties to the case. Their rights do not automatically disappear just because a parent’s rights are later terminated.
  2. TPR = death of a parent. The Court likened termination of parental rights to the death of a parent. In Sloan v. Sloan (2004), grandparents with court-ordered visitation kept those rights after the father’s death. Similarly, a TPR does not undo established visitation.
  3. Independent rights. After grandparents are awarded visitation, those rights “exist independently” of the parent’s custody or parental rights.

Practical Takeaways

For Grandparents

  • Court-ordered visitation survives termination: If you obtain visitation rights through a court order while a custody case is ongoing, those rights are not automatically erased even if your child’s parental rights are later terminated. The North Carolina Court of Appeals confirmed this in Adams v. Langdon (2019), treating termination like the death of a parent—your relationship with the grandchild doesn’t disappear overnight.
  • Independent rights: Once granted, visitation rights exist independently of the parent’s rights. That means even if your son or daughter is no longer legally the parent, you can still maintain a relationship with your grandchild through the court’s order.
  • Practical tip: If you’re considering pursuing visitation, do it while custody is already before the court. Don’t wait for things like termination of parental rights (TPR) or adoption, when options become limited.

For Parents

  • Termination doesn’t erase visitation: Terminating the other parent’s rights (for example, because of neglect or abandonment) does not automatically cancel any grandparent visitation that was granted while the custody case was pending. Courts view the grandparent’s rights as separate from those of the terminated parent.
  • Limits on interference: You still retain your paramount constitutional right as a fit parent to control your child’s upbringing, but if a visitation order is already in place, you must comply unless and until it is modified by the court.
  • Practical tip: If you believe court-ordered grandparent visitation is interfering too much with your parent–child relationship, you may petition for modification, but you’ll need to show a substantial change in circumstances since the original order.

For Families

  • Timing is critical: Grandparents must intervene while a custody dispute between the parents is active. If they wait until after one parent’s rights are terminated—or after a parent dies—they may not have standing to file at all.
  • Example: If a grandparent intervenes during a divorce or custody fight, they may preserve visitation rights. But if they wait until years later, after a parent has died or lost rights, they likely cannot start a new case.
  • Practical tip: Families should be proactive. If grandparents play a major role in a child’s life, the best time to protect that relationship legally is during an existing custody action, not after.

Adkins Law, PLLC – Huntersville Family Law Attorneys

At Adkins Law, PLLC, located in Huntersville NC, we help parents and grandparents navigate complex visitation and child custody issues, including cases involving termination of parental rights. If you have questions about how a TPR may affect existing visitation orders, we can guide you through the law and protect your family’s best interests. Click here to contact Adkins Law to speak with an experienced family law attorney.

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